這些肢體語(yǔ)言可辨別男友忠誠(chéng)度 教你迅速鑒定渣男

語(yǔ)言會(huì)騙人，但身體卻是最誠(chéng)實(shí)的。英國(guó)肢體語(yǔ)言專(zhuān)家帕蒂?伍德表示，如果你懷疑自己男友的忠誠(chéng)度，可以通過(guò)以下幾種身體語(yǔ)言尋找蛛絲馬跡。如果他的身體突然出現(xiàn)這些阿爾法身體信號(hào)，那么你的懷疑很可能是正確的。

If you suspect your husband or boyfriend of cheating on you, you may be inclined to be extra vigilant as to their whereabouts or want to check their phone for secret messages.
如果你懷疑自己的丈夫或男友出軌了，那么你可能會(huì)對(duì)他的行蹤格外敏感，或想要查看他的手機(jī)里是否有不可告人的信息。

But according to a body language expert, there could actually be other subtle signs your partner is being unfaithful.
但是一位肢體語(yǔ)言專(zhuān)家表示，實(shí)際上，其他一些微妙的跡象也可以表現(xiàn)出你的伴侶的忠誠(chéng)度。

And it all comes down to how they stand.
而這一些都取決于他們的站姿。

Body language expert Patti Wood explained to The Independent that: "Attraction and sex may create an increase in testosterone and create subtle changes in the body."
肢體語(yǔ)言專(zhuān)家帕蒂?伍德在接受《獨(dú)立報(bào)》采訪時(shí)解釋道：“性吸引力和性愛(ài)可能導(dǎo)致睪丸素上升，使得身體發(fā)生微妙的變化。”

Wood points out that alpha body signals do not necessarily mean a man is being unfaithful - so don't go accusing your husband just because they're standing a little taller - but if their body language has suddenly changed, it could imply something more serious.
伍德指出，阿爾法身體信號(hào)并不一定意味著一個(gè)男人出軌了，所以不要只是因?yàn)槟愕恼煞蛘镜蒙晕⒏唿c(diǎn)就指責(zé)他，但是如果他的肢體語(yǔ)言突然發(fā)生改變，那么這可能暗示了事情的嚴(yán)重性。

This could manifest itself in trying to make themselves seem bigger by elevating and pushing out their chest, and pulling back their shoulders, which is often an attempt to give off strong alpha signals.
這些表現(xiàn)包括，挺胸拉肩讓自己看起來(lái)塊頭更大，這種姿勢(shì)往往是試圖發(fā)出強(qiáng)烈的阿爾法信號(hào)。

"The broad leg stance is a particularly interesting," Wood says.
“雙腿大開(kāi)的站姿尤其有意思，”伍德說(shuō)。

By standing with your legs apart, you create a stable base for yourself. A normal, relaxed pose would see someone with their feet about shoulder-width apart.
雙腿分開(kāi)站立可以讓你的下盤(pán)更穩(wěn)。正常放松時(shí)，兩腳分開(kāi)的距離與肩同寬。

Slightly wider than that suggests someone feels grounded and confident.
雙腳距離比肩稍寬說(shuō)明這個(gè)人感到踏實(shí)自信。

If someone stands with their feet particularly far apart, this can be a subconscious attempt to make the body seem bigger and wider, which Wood says is "a signal of power and dominance."
如果一個(gè)人的雙腳分開(kāi)的特別大，那可能是試圖讓身體看起來(lái)更高大寬廣的潛意識(shí)動(dòng)作。伍德表示，這是“顯示力量和主導(dǎo)地位的標(biāo)志”。

"This also takes up more territory and shows domination," she adds.
她還說(shuō)：“這樣的姿勢(shì)占據(jù)了更多領(lǐng)地，顯示了統(tǒng)治權(quán)。”

By taking a wide stance, you're readying your body in case another person attacks, and Wood believes it may show "that a man has a new mate he wants to guard."
雙腳大開(kāi)的站姿讓你的身體準(zhǔn)備好抵御別人的攻擊，而伍德認(rèn)為這個(gè)動(dòng)作意味著“這個(gè)男人有了他想守護(hù)的新伴侶”。

Another feature of the wide stance is that it makes the male sex organs vulnerable, which can be a way of sending the message that a man isn't afraid, that they think they're so strong no one will attempt to hurt them.
雙腳大開(kāi)的站姿還會(huì)讓男性性器官容易受到傷害，這可能意味著這個(gè)男人無(wú)所畏懼，因?yàn)樗J(rèn)為自己很強(qiáng)壯，沒(méi)有人會(huì)試圖傷害他。

"This display can be a sexual display (especially men to women) or a show of power (especially between men)," Wood explains.
伍德解釋稱(chēng)：“這種姿勢(shì)可能是帶有性意味的展示（特別是男性對(duì)女性），也可以是炫耀力量（尤其是在男性之間）。”

If a man plants his feet firmly more than nine inches apart, it's primarily a "male pelvic display," according to Wood.
據(jù)伍德稱(chēng)，如果一個(gè)男人雙腳分開(kāi)站立的距離超過(guò)九英寸（22厘米），那么就是在“展示自己的男性器官”。

"It's a way of saying, 'this is my space, I own it and I am not moving,'" she explains.
她說(shuō)：“這個(gè)姿勢(shì)是在表達(dá)‘這是我的空間，我擁有它，我不會(huì)離開(kāi)’。”

By highlighting the male sex organs, a man is attempting to give off an alpha signal and boast without saying any words, which often occurs as a result of boosted sexual interest.
一個(gè)男人可以通過(guò)突顯男性性器官來(lái)釋放阿爾法信號(hào)，這是一種無(wú)聲的炫耀，性興趣增加時(shí)經(jīng)常會(huì)發(fā)生這種情況。

It might be nothing to worry about, but if your suspicions are already there, it could be something to watch.
也許是你多慮了，但是如果你已經(jīng)有所懷疑，那么這里是你應(yīng)該留心的地方。

英文來(lái)源：獨(dú)立報(bào)
翻譯&編輯：董靜
審校：丹妮