Quora網(wǎng)友分享輕生前神奇經(jīng)歷：未來妻子的一通電話救了我

最近美國網(wǎng)絡(luò)論壇Quora上，有人發(fā)問“你的人生中有過仿佛電影般的經(jīng)歷嗎？”結(jié)果一名網(wǎng)友在底下留言分享了一段精彩故事，他表示念高中時自己曾經(jīng)試圖自殺，卻在正要死的那一刻，接到了初中時期暗戀對象打來的電話，這讓他重新找到活下去的希望。而10年后，這個女生成了他的妻子。

一起來看看Quora用戶凱文?沃爾什（Kevin Walsh）分享的這段美好而戲劇化的經(jīng)歷：

Once upon a time I was 13 at a summer camp and the prettiest girl I'd ever seen walked right up to me and said “black is a good color on you.” No idea why. We chatted and became friends, exchanged AIM screen names and stayed in touch for a while.
我13歲那一年參加夏令營，遇到一個女孩，她是我見過最可愛的女生。她徑直向我走來，毫無緣由地說“你穿黑色很好看”。我們交談起來，并成了朋友，互相交換了網(wǎng)名，有段時間一直保持聯(lián)系。

We fell off each others’ radar some time in high school, but I can promise you that not a day went by that I didn't think about that girl. Even now I'm not sure I can say why - something about her just stayed with me.
高中某個時候起，我們失去了聯(lián)系，但是我可以保證，我沒有一天不在想她。即使是現(xiàn)在，我也說不清為什么，她的影子卻一直縈繞在我腦海。

不幸的是，沃爾什在高三時因遇到了不少挫折而患上憂郁癥，并開始有自殺的念頭。某一天，他寫好遺書，并試圖結(jié)束自己的生命，而他正要輕生的幾秒前，他接到一通看似陌生的來電。沃爾什繼續(xù)寫道：

Somewhere between 5 and 10 seconds before I would have committed suicide, my phone rang. I checked the caller ID - I couldn't die not knowing. It was a number I didn't recognize, so I picked up and it was her.
在我正要輕生的5到10秒前，我的電話響了。我看了一眼來電顯示，我不能帶著疑問死去。這是一個我不認識的號碼，所以我接了電話，打電話的人正是她。

I asked her what was up and she said she just felt like she had to call me. At that point it had been a year since we had spoken, and at that moment she just had to call. Long story short, she pried, I spilled the beans and she talked me out of it. I mean she literally said “What? Don't do that.” And that was that.
我問她為什么打電話，而她說，就是覺得自己應(yīng)該給我打電話。在那之前，我們已經(jīng)有一年沒有聯(lián)系過了，就在那一刻她必須要打這個電話。長話短說，她打聽了我的情況，我說漏了嘴，然后她勸我不要自殺。我的意思是，她真的說：“什么？不要那樣做。”僅此而已。

She made me promise to call her the next day, and we hung up. That night I started writing the words which, ten years later, I'd propose with.
她讓我承諾第二天給她打電話，然后我們掛斷了電話。那天晚上，我寫下了十年后我要求婚時說的話。

沃爾什還曬出和妻子布萊克的結(jié)婚照片：

這一段真實而溫馨的愛情故事感動了許多網(wǎng)友，短短幾天就吸引了37萬人點閱、3.9萬人點贊。沃爾什告訴BuzzFeed：

"The comments have been unbelievably kind; most are congratulatory and uplifting."
“評論非常的友好，大部分是祝福和鼓勵的話。”

沃爾什還用自己的親身經(jīng)歷提醒那些有輕生念頭的人，在你認為自殺才是唯一的出路時，最好的辦法就是和人交談。他說：

"There is power in saying it out loud. There's a good chance that the moment it comes out of your mouth you'll realize it isn't what you want at all," said Walsh.
“大聲說出口會產(chǎn)生一種力量。當你從嘴里說出來時，你很有可能會意識到你根本不想這么做?！?/p>

英文來源：BuzzFeed
翻譯&編輯：董靜
審校：yaning