11 suggestions for wives to get along with their husbands

1. The wife who wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife who uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing an embargo on intimate relations, going to bed in denim shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.

3. The wife who uses the modern trends and laws of "women rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman who makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from the office to be at home, for that should be the safest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the defacto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes her man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife who does not pull herself away from her friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to be blame.

8. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with a headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!

9. If television programs suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need some counseling.

10. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

11. A woman who has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of how to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls.

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